Jonathots Daily Blog
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I curse people.
People curse me.
Unfortunately, we curse each other.
This lends itself to a reaction. For after all, for every action there is a reaction. The reaction often triggers people to perform what they would normally deem to be unwanted behavior. Let’s take a look at how this works:
“You’re stupid.”
A curse that leads to the reaction, “I must prove I’m smart.”
“Damn you.”
“I must find a way to hurt you back.”
“I hate you.”
“Then I hate you, too.”
“You are no good.”
“I must show off my righteousness.”
“You are a loser.”
“I must disguise my efforts.”
Unless you reverse a curse, it always makes things worse.
When you find yourself under unusual scrutiny or criticism from others, remember the following three things:
1. Don’t deny nor defend your past.
It’s a waste of time. History is written in memories. Trying to change memories is fruitless.
2. Don’t spend too much time sharing future plans.
Your dreams are always impossible to other people’s ears. You can not convince them that you have a great idea because they’re too busy with their own ideas. If you insist on talking too much you will have too much to prove.
3. Give yourself a daily focus.
Multi-tasking doesn’t work. As we need to be given daily bread, we also need to grant ourselves a simple daily focus which can be understood, pursued and achieved.
I am convinced that if you take fourteen days and stay away from your past, stop touting your aspirations for the future and focus on a single event every day, you can break all the curses that have been levied against you by the critical mob.
Cursing may be something truly evil, but as long as human beings fail to look to their own hearts and instead, try to change everyone around them, these barbs will come our way.
Knowing how to break them is the key to knowing how to make it.
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