Decide What Is Truly Abrasive
This may sound like a simple task, but the statements that were once considered abrasive have altered considerably.
The actual definition of abrasive is “harsh, rough to the ear and showing little concern for the feelings of others.”
Here is a rather comical collection:
“King George is a tyrant.” In colonial days, this would have incited at least violence and possibly jail.
“Slaves should be free.” If you had said that in Congress in 1851, you’d have been dubbed abrasive for sure.
“I love rock and roll.” Try that one in 1961 America.
“The Vietnam War is criminal.” In 1967, your father might have taken your car keys away.
“Black people should have the right to vote.” Obviously, there are people today who find this an abrasive statement.
“We should have a woman President.” Once again, that one will polish a rough surface or two.
Honestly, I think “abrasive” is a tough one.
Often there are things that need to be shared–even shouted from the housetops. If they’re not said, they can’t be heard and if they can’t be heard, the faith to change things for the better is never launched.
So how do I know when I’m abrasive? This is where it does get simple.
If I’m saying something because I was personally offended or if I have a hankering to offend somebody else just for the hell of it, you can pretty well guarantee–it’s abrasive.
But words that are said to cry out for freedom and protect the innocent may be initially considered abrasive, but history will laud them as prophetic and courageous.
Perhaps it would take an angel to discern all the subtleties in this process.
Perhaps we need a few more angels.
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