Jonathots Daily Blog
How important is self-esteem?
They are everywhere.
It would be foolish not to include ourselves.
But as important as it is to acknowledge the damage, it is even more essential to prescribe the correct repair.
Self-esteem is like going out and buying a large picture to hang over the hole in your wall. It is not a solution, but rather, a temporary fix.
Self-esteem functions under three very dangerous premises:
1. Because you were born, you matter.
2. There’s no one quite like you.
3. Therefore, you are special.
This particular “candy-bar philosophy” has no grounding in reality.
There are concepts, however, which have proven to have longevity. For instance, the Bible says:
- All have sinned.
- There’s none righteous.
- Whosoever will may come.
- God is no respecter of persons.
A completely different approach.
In self-esteem, we are encouraged to ignore our problems and deny our commonality. Unfortunately, if everybody is special, then nobody’s special. If everybody matters, then it’s difficult to get personal attention.
So what should we be trying to achieve? Self awareness.
I have some good.
I have some bad.
I have some lazy.
I have some worry.
I have some fret.
I have some genetic predispositions.
I have family.
I have responsibilities.
I have real pressure.
I have phony pressure.
I also have my present talent so I can launch my solutions.
If we cannot be self-aware about our status, we will lean on “puffy” principles, which make us appear more grounded than we actually are.
When we remove the pressure to be right and eliminate the need to be the center of attention, we can begin to understand that the Earth works when we allow place for each other.
Thus, sometimes we’re the head and on other occasions, the tail.
Ironically, self-esteem robs us of the worth we could possess by taking on simple tasks using our ability–and basking in the joy of completion.
Here is the essence of self-awareness:
We are saved by grace.
But we are distinguished by service.
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