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A quick point from G-Pop.
If it is your idea to share your heart, it’s called vulnerable. If somebody else demands you share your heart, it’s called weak.
Human beings need the ability to make their own choice. When you remove this, you tinker with the soul. No human being has the right to tinker with the soul of another.
Yet rather than screaming about choice, it would be a good idea to learn how choice is acquired.
It’s really quite simple:
If you need to be wanted, you always come across as weak. On the other hand, if you need to be respected, you will generally be considered mean.
So at all costs, we must refrain from the need to be wanted–that fussy part of us that tries to pretend we don’t care what people think while simultaneously being addicted to the drug of public opinion. Because the danger is to rebound and try to become tough, demanding that people respect us–and when they don’t, plotting a foolish revenge.
This situation is not different in China as compared to Argentina. The people in the British Isles don’t have different criterion than those in Nigeria. All of us function in the same scenario. In other words, we rise and thrive by avoiding the feelings of needing to be wanted or needing to be respected.
Being wanted and respected is impossible until it is determined that you are valuable. So crawl into your own soul and make pearls–accumulating worth.
Make yourself interesting. Make yourself predictable in a good way. In other words, when the chips are down, you can be counted on.
There you are. If you are going to complain about the system, you’ll never be able to work with it. So how do we become valuable?
1. Stop seeking praise and seek opportunity.
2. Be willing to do important things on your own when others have given up.
3. Don’t criticize people for failing to have the same determination that you do.
4. Do the good deed and don’t hang around for the party.
5. Make sure that when you fail, you make it clear to those around you that you’re going to correct it or improve it.
6. Acknowledge the value in others.
G-Pop wants his children to know that they should not need to be wanted or need to be respected.
The power lies in becoming valuable to those around you–and then they will want you and respect you.
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G-Poppers … March 2nd, 2018
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They were bombed. Yes, completely bombed out of their minds.
G-Pop is talking about Nikita Khrushchev and Mao Zedong, the first secretary of the Communist Party in Russia and the Chairman of the Communist Party in China, respectively.
They were bombed in the sense that they were intoxicated on the power they felt by possessing an arsenal of nuclear weapons. So inebriated were they on their own power that they frequently threatened the world with destruction.
Fortunately, the world was granted a country called the United States, which possessed a President who refused to take the bait and openly, or at least quietly, lobbied against nuclear proliferation.
Beginning with Eisenhower, then Kennedy, Johnson and even Richard Nixon–all were convinced it was essential that the world be disarmed from the threat of atomic annihilation. It continued with Jimmy Carter and even Ronald Reagan, who tried to negotiate treaties while simultaneously being an usher at the falling of the House of Lenin.
Vladimir Putin of Russia and Kim Jung Un of North Korea are also bombed. They have picked up on the infection of egotistical, maniacal manipulation through the news cycle by threatening humanity with demise.
Here is where G-Pop is concerned: we seem to have lost the American president who stands in the way of these bombed individuals. Unfortunately, some chest-thumping and threats are now coming from the red, white and blue.
We have three leaders in the world who are bombed. At no time in our history has such a precarious imbalance loomed over the precious lives of our children.
It does not do any good to claim to be a Christian nation if we continue to politically and diplomatically live under the pretext of “an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.”
Sanity must prevail, and we can’t wait for a redemption story to come from the Kremlin or North Korea. It is up to our President to follow the examples of his predecessors and control the danger which might accidentally be unleashed just to prove a point.
G-Pop wants his children to know that much of this Earth is negotiated by balancing. It’s not an issue of compromise, but rather, a deterrent to insanity through seeking the counsel of better “angles.”
We are in trouble.
It’s not because Putin is in Russia or Kim Jung Un is in North Korea. It’s because we’ve lost our perspective as a nation on how foolish it is to intimidate–and how such maneuvers can create alarming predicaments which might force us to back up our claims.
Where is the voice of reason?
Where is the realization that military might is best used in exercises instead of filling body bags?
G-Pop is praying for restraint.
G-Pop, who had a grandson born just today, is attempting to encourage “turn the other cheek,” which allows us to keep our good face alive and well.
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