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Dear Man: Cooperate.
Dear Woman: Is that an order?
Dear Man: No, I was just thinking about the word. Co, meaning the two of us, and operate … well, I guess that implies working together.
Dear Woman: The two of us working together. That’s cool.
Dear Man: Well, the trouble is, it’s not cool. We are taught to be independent. Self-sufficient. We’re working on our own biographies instead of a human story. Somehow we feel diminished if all the praise doesn’t come our way but instead is given to a cooperative effort.
Dear Woman: I see what you mean. Yet that’s always been my problem with collaboration. Rather than everybody standing back and rejoicing over the end result, each person has a tendency to point out his or her part in the process.
Dear Man: We can’t help it. Society tells us if we don’t toot our own horn it won’t get tooted.
Dear Woman: It is possible for somebody to blow your horn. After all, it is a horn.
Dear Man: That’s funny. And oh, so true. I guess we need to remember that we were created to be in a garden. It’s a co-op. No person is sufficient unto themselves without a common humanity and a common good.
Dear Woman: I have to be honest. I’m resistant to that concept. I mean, I understand it but it’s like I feel I need to have autonomy. Otherwise I don’t have my own thing.
Dear Man: I’m the same way. I would like to include you, but I really don’t want you to feel like you’re necessary.
Dear Woman: But it’s all over nature. If you don’t mind me bringing it up, even sexuality is kind of comical. The male and female parts are not competely compatible with each other unless the man and the woman talk, discuss and share.
Dear Man: So true. Yet at the same time, we feel like we should be complete within ourselves. It’s important to acknowledge what we have, otherwise we don’t know what we require.
Dear Woman: And it’s not stereotypes. Not all men are strong and all women emotional.
Dear Man: Absolutely not! Sometimes the female is the strong one and the man brings the emotion. It’s knowing how to co-op. In farming, one person plants, another waters and God and Nature give the increase.
Dear Woman: So why are we so damn afraid of this?
Dear Man: We’re taught to look at each other sexually, not practically.
Dear Woman: I can see that. Sometimes I’m just nervous talking to a woman because I’m afraid…I don’t know…that she doesn’t find me attractive.
Dear Man: What can be more attractive than an intelligent exchange? Or the realization that somebody has brought some information to you that completes one of your goals?
Dear Woman: So what can we do to initiate this co-op?
Dear Man: I think what stumps people is that in order to become strong, you have to know where you’re weak. And to use your weakness is to learn to recognize what you need before it’s pointed out to you.
Dear Woman: I think I could actually do that, especially if I had a friend to remind me when I was stumping around advertising my ego instead of being honest about my limitations.
Dear Man: Men and women were meant to cooperate–joining together to operate a plan that is only enhanced by their dual efforts.
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G-Poppers … October 27th, 2017
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Today G-Pop would like to talk to his children about the Precedence of the United States.
We’re not talking about the President.
No–we’re not referring to any occupant of the Oval Office, past, present or future.
It’s the precedence which has crept into the American consciousness, causing us to be so drunk on our own pride that we’re in danger of teetering the world into an international fiasco.
It is a three-part deception:
1. We are exceptional.
2. We are really never wrong.
3. And our mistakes are more virtuous than most countries’ insights.
It culminates in a little piece of nastiness: when you run across “mean,” just be meaner.
And this is not just in our politics. It is being manifested through ruthless business practices, religious intolerance, and the stirring up of social and cultural bigotry.
We’ve become picky, frustrated, cantankerous and dangerous because of the power we wield. Matter of fact, G-Pop’s children are often tempted to get on board the “eye-for-an-eye-bandwagon” and start poking with their sticks.
Somehow or another we’ve convinced ourselves that the peace treaties, negotiations, prayer, foreign aid and the collaborations we’ve had with other peoples have weakened us instead of defined us as a great nation.
Where could G-Pop’s children begin?
Since his offspring do not hold public office, his children must quietly begin within their own lives–setting the example that sounds the tone which composes the music for the revival.
A. “I am often wrong.”
B. “I will apologize for how this inconveniences you or others.”
C. “I will make obvious strides to do better.”
This is not merely a “christian” attitude, nor a loving and giving sappiness.
It is survival.
For after all, nations–or people–don’t have to be stronger than us to hurt us dearly. It only takes one maniac to devastate the lives of seven hundred people.
It is a good thing to have a heart for repentance which welcomes the possibility for transformation.
We have a precedence in the United States. It is an infatuation with meanness under the guise of “staying tough.” We want our slogans, our politics and the chip on our shoulder to be backed up with a gun in our hand.
G-Pop prays that his children will realize that the Wild West is no longer wild–all the bad guys killed all the good guys until finally someone said “enough.”
Yes, enough.
Enough of the precedence of the United States being meanness. We don’t have to become weak. We need to be aware.
Address foolishness when it is foolish and give assistance when we see need.
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