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There is much to be gained by studying the lifestyle of Jesus.
It’s not just the miracles or the Messiah “rap.” It’s mostly his message and his management style. Since he was human, he was completely capable of error–to such a degree that the Good Book tells us “he learned through what he suffered.”
We also can garner great insight from the mistakes Jesus made.
One of those was Judas.
We will never know why Jesus chose Judas. It wasn’t because the Iscariot was predestined to be the betrayer of Christ. If you believe that, you should go home, don your Medieval helmet and launch a Crusade to take back the Holy Lands.
Maybe Jesus saw something in the young Judean. It never came to fruition–but there still is much we can curry from studying the relationship. It is a tenuous friendship which came to a head ten days before the Resurrection–in Bethany just outside Jerusalem.
Mary, the sister of Lazarus, who had recently risen from the dead, held a party. I think having a brother who survived “grave circumstances” is well worth some nachos and punch. At the height of the affair, Mary decided to crack open a family heirloom–a flask of expensive burial perfume reserved for the family–which she chose to use to anoint the feet of Jesus. It was an extraordinary, tender moment between Mary of Bethany and Jesus of Nazareth.
The aroma filled the room–an intoxicating fragrance.
But Judas was pissed. He had probably been pissed a long time–and he decided he had found an Achilles heel in the Master’s footsteps–perhaps a way to make Jesus look stupid.
So he complained that Mary had used such an expensive gift for such a trivial purpose. To accentuate his point, he suggested it should have been sold and the money given to the poor.
Judas was convinced he had ground an axe to a sharp point to swing at Jesus’ reputation.
I don’t know why he hated Jesus when he loved him so much. Or maybe he loved him so much that he learned to hate him. I am not privy to the mental state of Judas from Kerioth.
But I do know that Judas thought he was right, and he believed that others were going to back him up. Instead, Jesus rebuked him. I suppose you could say that Jesus did it nicely. (Perhaps you could explain what a “nice” rebuke is.)
Jesus said Judas was out of line–that he had lost the meaning of the moment, and had put a price tag on intimacy.
But here is where Jesus made his mistake: he allowed Judas to leave the room without resolving the conflict. He gave too much credit to the Son of Simon. He figured Judas had heard enough teaching about forgiveness that there was no need to pursue it any further.
Jesus was sadly mistaken.
There is no such thing as a misunderstanding. It is always “your misunderstanding and how right I am.”
Unfortunately, all misunderstandings end in betrayal. If they are not confronted, talked out and healed, the unresolved conflict will eventually open the door to one party or another striking out.
Then we have the scenario of feeling pressure to say “I’m sorry.”
It usually comes forth like, “I’m sorry if I offended anyone.”
Another possibility is, “I’m sorry, and please forgive me.”
It’s amazing how that particular statement, which seems to be filled with humility, can suddenly turn back into anger if the wounded individual does not proffer forgiveness.
The truth is, there is only one response that is correct when ignorance, wilfulness, short-sightedness and nastiness spring from our being and attack another.
“I was wrong.”
Not “I was wrong but…”
Nor “I was wrong in this case, but in another situation it would be different…”
“I was wrong” takes the risk that there will be no forgiveness.
This is what Jesus needed to hear from Judas–even if it required Peter, James and John physically holding Judas in place. Keep in mind–peace-making can be a messy business.
But misunderstanding, “I am sorry if…” and “I am sorry, please…” do not bring about reconciliation.
They are ways for us to maintain our solitary purity while seeming to appear transformed.
You might ask, how do I know this? Because the Good Book tells us that Judas left the party in a snit and went out and plotted with the enemies of Jesus–to betray him.
This was an expensive mistake:
If you leave misunderstanding unhealed, the wound may pour forth blood.
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G-Poppers … July 13th, 2018
G-Pop loves his children.
Of course, most folks claim they do. Even that lady in the courtroom who “offed her young’uns” insisted she adored the little tykes.
Love is the delicate balance between affection and correction. And who has ever found the balance? Some people are too affectionate–other people are just hard-asses.
How can you tell the truth in love?
G-Pop wants you to know that the world is segregating itself into clumps of misunderstanding.
For instance, over here on the right you’ve got the “He” crowd–“He” meaning God:
God is everything.
God is good.
Yet … God seems indifferent about the plight of children killed in war. (But that’s because we don’t understand His will.)
God, who is supposed to make us happy often leaves us sad, failing to return our messages.
So escaping “He,” we become…
Well, “you.”
I find myself having to contend with–you. After all, you have such great potential. If you would just listen to me, you would become amazingly fruitful, but you persist in your own ideas when you know that mine are proven better.
So you, who could be a companion to me, suddenly become a problem.
Conversations with you. I become convinced things are going to be better, and then you just end up being you.
Worse than that, many “yous” become “them” which is closely associated with “they.”
This is not an issue of prejudice or racism. These “yous,” who have clustered together in regions, have generated a serious predicament.
Maybe it’s skin color–but not exclusively.
Maybe it’s their customs.
But certainly, at the heart of it, they just aren’t quite as good and certainly not as adequate.
They need to be set apart.
Let’s not get mean about it. (Matter of fact, if we can get them to think it’s their idea to promote their own flag, their own skin tone or their own religion…)
Just keep them away.
I guess the only true way this can be achieved is for us to become a “we.”
We’re just so damn cute. We’re clever, we’re creative, we’re concerned about the world. We hold meetings and share ideas, relating with one another.
We are not animals.
We are not part of the ignorant masses who support foolishness.
We have culture.
We even have a mission statement.
Shoot–all we need is a song. Yes, a rallying tune to make it clear where “they” end and “we” begin.
So as the world drags on with devotion to “He,” criticism of “you,” bigotry about “them” and the self-righteousness of “we”, G-Pop notes that something needs to emerge that speaks the truth with love.
It is “I.”
But it is “i” in the lower case. It is an “i” that has not yet arrived.
And the tiny “i” is a way to signify that we understand that we’re empowered, but have not yet capitalized on all of our possibilities.
“i” am the beginning and the end of the significance of my life.
When “i” look to “we, them, you or He,” “i” drain energy from my existence–leaving a huge hole in my soul.
What do “i” need to do?
A. “i” need to repent of my fear of being wrong.
B. “i” need to make that repentance as joyous and as full of good cheer as possible, so “i” won’t resent doing it.
C. “i” need to focus on my work instead of trying to live off the efforts of others.
D. And “i” need to be humble.
G-Pop loves his children–enough to tell them the truth with affection.
G-Pop is an “i.”
He is an “i” who’s working everyday on trying to dot himself.
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