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It’s touching.
I’m touched.
Touch me.
From the minute we plop out of the womb, we scream—not for food, not sight, or to hear comforting words—and not to smell chocolate chip cookies.
We scream for connection.
Goddamn it—put me back against my mother’s skin. Let me feel some touch.
Then society, our educational system, religious training and our entertainment industry attempt to make us overly dependent on what we merely see and hear.
Touch is removed except for obvious situations, when we require intimacy.
We are told that touch is dangerous. You can contract diseases. You can over-commit your emotions.
Therefore, we reserve touch and withhold it. Matter of fact, when we even hear the word touch, we associate it with sexuality instead of humanity.
Some ideas persist:
Shaking hands, for instance. But we’re changing that to a fast fist-bump.
Holding hands. Isn’t a high-five enough?
A pat on the back. “Come on! You know I support you.”
There’s a national pastime to make things that draw us closer together seem unnatural. As a result, we cloister into smaller and smaller units, only allowing for fellowship in the catacombs of our own understanding.
I see you. I see what you’re doing. I want to let you know I appreciate it. I touch you.
I hear you. I love the sound. It makes me what to touch you.
I smell your human odor—your fragrance. Yes, I wouldn’t mind being close.
And certainly, I taste you. We are intimate. It makes me yearn to caress you.
It is impossible to foster human progress without touch.
Even as we argue about people coming to our country from other nations, is it not possible for us to honor those who emigrate while still being careful about their immigration? Can’t we be touched by their journey, and still ask them to stand in line and fill out an application? Why must we portray them as evil, nasty, rotten and devious?
When you remove touch, you hamper the hands, and when the hands retreat, the ability to assist evaporates.
Being touched is not a feminine thing, nor is it a masculine no-no. It is the only way that we’re sure we’re alive…and it means something.
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G-Poppers … September 1st, 2017
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A quick point from G-Pop.
If it is your idea to share your heart, it’s called vulnerable. If somebody else demands you share your heart, it’s called weak.
Human beings need the ability to make their own choice. When you remove this, you tinker with the soul. No human being has the right to tinker with the soul of another.
Yet rather than screaming about choice, it would be a good idea to learn how choice is acquired.
It’s really quite simple:
If you need to be wanted, you always come across as weak. On the other hand, if you need to be respected, you will generally be considered mean.
So at all costs, we must refrain from the need to be wanted–that fussy part of us that tries to pretend we don’t care what people think while simultaneously being addicted to the drug of public opinion. Because the danger is to rebound and try to become tough, demanding that people respect us–and when they don’t, plotting a foolish revenge.
This situation is not different in China as compared to Argentina. The people in the British Isles don’t have different criterion than those in Nigeria. All of us function in the same scenario. In other words, we rise and thrive by avoiding the feelings of needing to be wanted or needing to be respected.
Being wanted and respected is impossible until it is determined that you are valuable. So crawl into your own soul and make pearls–accumulating worth.
Make yourself interesting. Make yourself predictable in a good way. In other words, when the chips are down, you can be counted on.
There you are. If you are going to complain about the system, you’ll never be able to work with it. So how do we become valuable?
1. Stop seeking praise and seek opportunity.
2. Be willing to do important things on your own when others have given up.
3. Don’t criticize people for failing to have the same determination that you do.
4. Do the good deed and don’t hang around for the party.
5. Make sure that when you fail, you make it clear to those around you that you’re going to correct it or improve it.
6. Acknowledge the value in others.
G-Pop wants his children to know that they should not need to be wanted or need to be respected.
The power lies in becoming valuable to those around you–and then they will want you and respect you.
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