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There are matters that are too important to ignore or leave to chance. These are salient moments.
Strolling down any thoroughfare in 1975, it was highly unlikely that you would see a person dressed in a military uniform unless it was an aging hippie who was donning the garments to protest the whole concept of war.
Soldiering just wasn’t popular. It was not contemptuous, but it was contentious.
In other words, it created so much conflict because of the Vietnam War that people tried to avoid any discussion about army men, marines or sailors.
This continued for many years. Matter of fact, may I say that for most of you reading this, if you encountered a guidance counselor in high school, you were offered many choices on college, technical institutions and even mechanic schools. Then, at the tail end of such a conversation, you might have been given the option of military service.
A last resort.
“He is so screwed up he needs to go into the army.”
“Maybe the marines will straighten him out.”
The military was never considered a fast track to success and was often riddled with guys–and maybe even a gal or two–who “just never found themselves.”
It was a volunteer army for those who volunteered because volunteering for anything else seemed pointless.
These are hard, cold, historical facts, and have nothing to do with the sentiments of this author or even the lasting emotions of the American people. It was just felt that being grateful to a warrior seemed to be promoting the war.
Then there was a change–a needful one.
At first, it was politicians who wanted to pander to their more conservative base.
Then it was ministers in churches, welcoming the fighting men home to their families and friends.
Gradually, a phrase emerged from the lips of the American populace: “Support the troops.”
Then it evolved from this generic form, it has become: “We want to thank you for your service.”
It doesn’t make any difference if it’s President Trump, a game show host, a first grade class or Bernie Sanders–it is now universally executed. Whenever a person in uniform is standing before us, we must pipe up with, “Thank you for your service.”
We have learned to do it. Sometimes it doesn’t even sound sincere. It doesn’t matter. It is the respectful piece of etiquette, which has been inserted into our common, everyday lingo, to express a positive position.
So why can’t we do the same thing over race? Why can’t we start looking at the color of people’s skin, and honor them for surviving their struggles, battles and the ups and downs in being American citizens?
It might take a while–but perhaps we could start off by making eye contact with someone of a different race, and tenderly, through that gaze, communicate that we understand that their journey is more difficult than ours.
After all, we don’t give a nod to the troops because they’re changing light bulbs in the kitchen. That’s what we do. We give appreciation to them because they do and have done what we can’t or won’t do.
They serve. They survive. They use their intellect to protect our freedom.
Why can’t we do this with the black man?
“I want to thank your ancestors for their service to America, even though it has gone unnoticed and unheralded.”
To the Hispanic population:
“Thank you for your industrious nature, which continues to work despite all the criticism you receive.”
To the Native Americans:
“Thank you for allowing us to live on this land which was originally yours–and even though we stole it, you stopped fighting and decided to coexist with us.”
And to those from Asia:
“Thank you for coming to this country and bringing your energy, heart and family values, which we have incorporated into our own lifestyle.”
So here is your salient moment:
Support the troops. Yes, let us rally around those who are prepared to fight for our country.
But perhaps we could take the next two decades, applying the same principle we did to bring necessary respect to the armed services, to learn, once and for all, how to support the groups.
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